GUSTINE — Jerry Silva, longtime teacher, coach and mentor, will celebrate his 80th birthday this month, and the community he helped shape is taking time to honor the man behind the whistle.
Silva spent more than 30 years in Gustine classrooms and on athletic fields, earning a reputation for tough love, unwavering dedication and a heart as big as his voice. Former students, colleagues and family members say Silva’s impact reaches far beyond lesson plans and scoreboards.
Matt Baffunno, who began teaching alongside Silva 23 years ago, said their friendship quickly grew. “We hit it off right away,” Baffunno said. “From golfing together to having him in my fantasy football league all 23 years, he’s been a great friend and constant source of laughs.” Baffunno said Silva’s annual draft-day optimism is legendary. “Every year he tells me he’s got a sleeper who’s going to carry his team to the Super Bowl. And every year, that player flops.”
Sam Gibbs, who had Silva as a P.E. teacher and athletics director from 1988 to 1991, called him a “wonderful man and great coach,” and thanked him for his guidance. Dalila Hernandez recalled asking Silva to escort her at the Rotary’s Annual Basketball Tournament in 1990. “He accepted enthusiastically and even offered to wear his tux,” she said. “I was honored to be escorted by Mr. Silva, who was my father for a night.”
Brooke and Heather Ponder, former athletes, said Silva’s coaching style was intense but full of love. “We both loved playing for him,” Brooke said. “He wore his heart on his sleeve and showed so much love to all of his players.” Mike Palomino agreed. “He may be tough when he coaches you, but he cares,” he said. “He wants you to be your best.”
Julie Aguiniga, Class of 1998, said Silva’s booming voice was a fixture during games. “He was constructive, funny, loud, and would sometimes turn red depending on how bad we were doing,” she said. “Mr. Silva, you’re a great coach. You’re a hidden treasure.”
Family members say Silva’s commitment extended beyond the field. His stepson Justin Edwards recalled serving as water boy during football games and watching Silva pour his heart into every team. His stepdaughter Marni Edwards said Silva held everyone to high standards, even at home. “If you were late for practice, you were running,” she said.
Silva’s wife, Marsha, said his faith and generosity define him. “He does not only profess his faith but lives it every day,” she said. “He’s a wonderful husband and caring and giving father, father-in-law, grandfather, coach and mentor. I’m blessed to be his wife.”
Silva’s legacy lives on in the stories, laughter and gratitude of those who knew him. As Gustine celebrates his 80th birthday, the community honors a man who gave his heart to generations.